Do you think you can really choose about your life or is life driven by Fate?
Very possibly, all of us have considered this at some point in our life. Some have a clear mind and even feel 'energetic' about it. Others do not bother to reach any conclusions thinking that nobody has the answer.
In my country, it is very common to hear expressions such as "I was fated not to find it" or "It was destined to happen" mainly when something wrong has taken place. I have always been at a loss as to what to think. I am inclined to think that perhaps our daily life is a mixture of both our acts and the circumstances. What I mean is that up to a point we have the power to control events. We can choose between doing something or not and the result will be different. We can alter what is going to happen.
It would be frustrating to think that a supernatural power decides the course of people's lives. Taking decisions is a risk while resigning to one's fate thinking that it cannot be resisted is much more comfortable.
Even if it is true that Fate has something in store for me, I would like to shape and tempt it.